The Prince of Tides

The Prince of TidesI m wearing my softest, fuzziest slippers while writing this review treading as lightly as I possibly can realising that I m on holy ground here, discussing a much beloved book among many of my very dear and respected Goodreads friends PLEASE, DON T HATE ME This book was at a disadvantage from the beginning, because the spectres of Babs and Nick haunted me continuously from the horrendous movie adaptation However, I was fully expecting to love and revel in this big, romantic, Southern family epic I didn t.There, I said it I didn t love it, I didn t enjoy it I am bewildered how I received this book so off the mark from legions of other readers If you love this book, please just laugh and disregard my review and keep on loving it.My first problem is that I found it incredibly sentimental, with prose as purple as can be An example He was tall and thin and had a complexion like goat cheese left on the table too long The funeral parlour smelled like dead flowers and unanswered prayers.And another I tasted the wine and it was so robust and appealing that I could feel my mouth singing with pleasure when I brought the glass from my lips The aftertaste held like a chord on my tongue my mouth felt like a field of flowers The mousse made me happy to be alive.I also found a very weird, incestuous tone cropped up dozens of times throughout the book This is a book in which sisters kiss their brothers on the lips, where a brother carries his sister like a bride , where a mother tells a son if she was younger she d have a go at him, where a father chases lewdly after his daughter after she shows him her budding breasts And so on, and so forth, and I could come up with manyexamples Once I started noticing the weirdness, I just couldn t stop It gave me the no feeling.I found the dialogue to be horrid characters constantly used each other s names in almost every line of dialogue Are you enjoying this Tom Lowenstein, I really am not Oh, Tom, Tom, but why not I wish I knew, Lowenstein TOM Lowenstein Once I noticed it, it was impossible not to notice it, and cringe I felt like I was watching a terrible 1980s movie most of the time, with a showy, cinematic predictability And, believability went out the window with the TIGER For goodness sakes A very poor shrimping boat family has a Bengal tiger in their barn Finally, the love story between Tom and Lowenstein did nothing for me She wasn t particularly likeable and so unprofessional, I might add So much build up leading to their relationship and then the sex scene was chaste enough to fit in a Stephenie Meyer book BOO And the way it ended was over the top, cheesy Now that I ve complained mercilessly and I apologise for that , I will say one thing Pat Conroy does consistently well, and which I appreciated, is convey his love for the American South its beauty, its vibrancy, its imperfections and uniqueness The South, in particular Colleton, South Carolina, is the main character and anchor to the rest of the players in the story The sense of place and its tidal pull on the Wingo family is indelible and irresistible That is where the gold lies. A Riptide In Southern English, naked means you ain t got no clothes on, while nekkid means you ain t got no clothes on and you re up to something. Lewis Grizzard Clip of the 3 kids in film version of novelMan wonders but God decidesWhen to kill the Prince of TidesA verse from the eponymous poem by Savannah Wingo, the suicidal sister and renowned poet in Pat Conroy s The Prince of Tides, a novel dealing on its surface with the general mentality of the Southern United States, particularly of the region s male gender.Conroy s protagonist Tom Wingo gives a first person account of the heart stinging story of the Wingo family of the South Carolina coast, primarily to his sister s NYC therapist in an attempt to save sis s life after a second suicide attempt The novel provides fertile ground for delving deeply into conflicts among family members, the steadfastness of the grandfather s religious beliefs, marital infidelity wounds and healing , the bonds between siblings and the lifelong scars left by a parent s physical and mental abuse and by a barbarous rape The story is also a serenade to our need for a , and the irony that humans, so capable of loving friends, family and mates, can also showsavagery than any other species to our own species and to our environment Through the contrast between New York City and a fishing village on the Carolina coast, Conroy examines these issues in a superb self reflective way, showing that we can find love anywhere, when we least expect it and with someone we initially see as so different and, love will follow us wherever we go, so long as we let it.Splendorous and distinctly Southern. This is the book that is the reason I read anything at all for pleasure I decided I was going to read it before the movie came out and COMPLETELY fell in love with Conroy s style, renewed my love affair with the low country of South Carolina, and discovered the joy of diving into a book wholeheartedly Mr Conroy is the reason I read today The stories of what this family went through are heartbreaking at one ormoment s and hysterical at others I didn t think the movie was half bad, but the book is phenomenal. Passion swells for this epic, The Prince of Tides, and so I swim in murky waters here, careful in my criticism not to become The Princess of Against the Tides.Ah, hell Who am I kidding This princess often swims against the tide and her upper body is strong.So, let me not mince words Let s get right to it.Pat Conroy has almost as many devotees as Jesus I m not sure about the source of the appeal, but he looks like a jolly gnome in the pictures I ve seen of him, and I take him for a man who shook hands vigorously at book signings.Okay, so he was affable I m not entirely sure you d need to ask Wife 1, Wife 2 or Wife 3 how she felt about him , and I enjoy affable types, but I m not sure whyattention hasn t been placed on some of the damnable mistakes in his writing.First off, Mr Conroy is incredibly inconsistent He ll write something lovely and memorable, like, when we spoke of our childhood, it seemed part elegy, part nightmare Or, I was the son of a beautiful, word struck mother and I longed for her touch many years after she had no obligation to touch me And then he ll carry on for eons with some overly wordy, barely readable prose I would struggle, page after page, reading these rants, which felt almost like the long winded stories my children tell me, as I drive them home from school You know, the stories that feel as though they have no punctuation, no beginning or ending, and require the storyteller to say them all in one breath Also, um ahem, anyone else made uncomfortable by Tom s mother wanting to make out with him and both brothers wanting to hook up with their sister Who is this guy, John Irving And, last but not least, the dialogue For the love of God, come on, now Even if you love this book, I ask you to return to it and read about 20 pages of the dialogue Truly, do me this favor, before you deem me harsh Clearly, this was not Mr Conroy s strength as a writer, and, luckily he isprone to descriptive narrative than passages of dialogue, but whenever it occurred, it pulled me right out of the story Quick example Where ya going, Tom Nowhere, Savannah I m going nowhere, Savannah But did ya want to, Tom Did you want to go somewheres, Tom Nah, Savannah But ya know what, Savannah I m hungry, Savannah I m telling you, I ve read better dialogue produced in short stories by high school freshmen.So what made this story all the rage Was it the occasionally beautiful prose The imagery I experienced some of that Was it the focus that was placed on the need for men to pursue mental emotional support I liked that, too Men need mental health outlets as much as women do, and I hate that our society has long made it taboo for them to seek it Was this book instrumental in shifting mindsets I don t know.I do know that the movie did nothing to help my reading experience I thought almost relentlessly of Barbra Streisand s acrylic nails and Nick Nolte s hair in his famous mugshot, as I was reading it And, worse than that, I pictured Nick Nolte s mouth, slack from overdosing, whispering to Streisand s lacquered nails Lowenstein Lowenstein Hard to get past that, though it s not the book s fault.So, back to the book Most Conroy diehards tell me that Tides isn t their favorite it s typically The Great Santini, when I ask I d be happy to receive Conroy suggestions, and I d be open minded toward another read.This was just surprisingly disappointing to me.Three stars, says the Princess Against the Tides three stars for some great one liners, a fantastic title, and the book s long lasting, cultural impact. PAT CONROY Has Created A Huge, Brash Thunderstorm Of A Novel, Stinging With Honesty And Resounding With Drama Spanning Forty Years, This Is The Story Of Turbulent Tom Wingo, His Gifted And Troubled Twin Sister Savannah, And Their Struggle To Triumph Over The Dark And Tragic Legacy Of The Extraordinary Family Into Which They Were BornFilled With The Vanishing Beauty Of The South Carolina Low Country As Well As The Dusty Glitter Of New York City, The Prince Of Tides Is PAT CONROY At His Very Best Pat Conroy s prose is tragically acquainted with all the misery and glory and pain and beauty of humanity It is also deeply entrenched in the American south I believe he immortalizes his own time and place the way Hemingway did for wartime Europe This story, so startlingly brutal and direct in it s engagement of the reader, lays out the impressive and failed life of Tom Wingo The plain good virtue and astonishing cruelty of small town South Carolina take shape in an uneasy and inevitable connection, vying ferociously with the complicated sadness of modernity This book is treacherous and difficult, wounding at the very threshold of a happy or cathartic moment, and while it is not always pleasant to read, it is provocative and cathartic It is an angry and sensitive book, dedicated to an ideal of America and made up of terrific stories It is all tied together in the structure of a novel, and ends up being well worth the read. I can t remember the last time I felt this torn I hated the characters for being so selfish with their affections, so cowardly in their confrontations, the cruelty shown when the moment was theirs for the taking What I hatedwas when the victim on the receiving end and, to be fair, it always rotates would rise up in anger, but then crumble to their knees in love and forgiveness And that s also why I loved them In one moment they felt so betrayed, so dishonored by blood and by love Then would wait five minutes, and forgive them because of who they The parents who brutalized but also showed beauty, the siblings that both threw each under the bus and saved them from it, and the hometown that treated them like nothingthan low rent scrubs And all those in betweens the hits, the tragedies, the shining moments, the crimes so unspeakable it leaves the reader wondering if there really is Godthey stream in and out of life, the yellow red threads in life s tapestry I ve read other reviews on this book, and I think 75% of them got it wrong While the location is in South Carolina, and the southern culture itself becomes a character in it, that town feeling, that family feeling that can be anywhere And finally, even had I not been utterly entranced by Conroy s writing style, I never would have wished for one page less. Before I wrote this, I took a cursory look at a few of the reviews and realized to my dismay that in this case I am the Grinch who took the roast beast And yet I stand by my rating because this book was for me an exercise in maudlin pablum The protagonist experiences all matter of tragedy in his youth, both quotidian and bizarre an abusive wretch of a father, a venal socially climbing mother, a horrific yet nonsensical assault and then grows up to have a mentally ill sister and a cheating wife There s also some mystery about his brother s fate but I won t spoiler it for you hint it s nonsensical too The aforementioned sister has suffered a breakdown which takes him from South Carolina to NYC where he meets her therapist There, he tells the story of their life to nice therapist lady with lines like, I haven t gotten to the worst part yet I haven t told you about the time they picked up and MOVED my hometown, Doctor Ahem, sniff sniff Yes that scene is in the book At some point he hooks up with the therapist She has a snooty violinist husband That is the highlight reel Now you don t have to read this book De nada I m not completely heartless The story about the pet tiger choked me up a little Wait a pet tiger in South Carolina In the 1940 s See I told you this book was freaking ridiculous By the way, I read this around the same time the movie came out and told a friend who had seen it I hated the book but the part with the tiger was sad She said, Tiger I have heard that The Great Santini was a better Conroy book and I did like the movie version of it Then again, people seem to like this book too So for now, I ll go back to stuffing the Who s Xmas tree up the chimney. I really did not intend to read The Prince of Tides anytime soon until a couple avid reading friends told me I should not pass it byand they were so right If you ve seen the movie, you already know this is an unforgettable and disturbing story set in both the South Carolina low country and New York City about an extremely dysfunctional family with abusive father Henry and complacent mother Lila whose children are traumatized by their treatment during childhood.but while Henry s brutality would leave a lasting impression on all their lives, it is nothing compared to the scary as hell seven foot giant who would forever terrorize Luke, Tom and his twin sister SavannahI can still see him starring in their window Despite all the dark hidden secrets that eventually come to light, this emotional story reveals some good times and laughable moments toolike grandmother Tolitha s episode inside the casket..and Henry s fried Alpo dog dinner,my favoriteand combined with Tom s sarcastic wise crack humor and close, loving relationship with his siblings, the jesting does help to lighten the severity of horrors endured and tragedy of loss. While the book is centered around Savannah s insanity and treatment by Dr Susan Lowenstein, their very disturbing childhoods are narrated by Tom who hopes to bring his sister back from her world of demons and silence.Except for bits of animal cruelty here and therethat I abhorthis is an incredible story and extraordinary novel I remember the movie being quite good, but the book in comparison has muchdetail and is IMHO exceptional. This book was, like all of Conroy s titles, intensely gripping, humorous at times, coarse and gruesome at others, withthan a few touches of sheer poetry scattered everywhere.Conroy excels at describing tortured family life in this case the Wingos of South Carolina Through narrator Tom s eyes, we learn about his parents, his older brother Luke, and his twin sister Savannah Rarely does one family have so much happening whether drama comes from inside the family circle or from without, it finds these children and their parents and puts them all through hell I ve read enough Conroy to know that his childhood was nearly as tortured as Tom Wingo s I admire the courage it must have taken to face his own demons in the way he had to in order to write any of his books Perhaps it was a necessary step to understanding his own life and the past moments that made him who he was That is the way things turned out for Tom Wingo, so why not for Pat Conroy also

Pat Conroy 1945 2016 was the New York Times bestselling author of two memoirs and seven novels, including The Prince of Tides, The Great Santini, and The Lords of Discipline Born the eldest of seven children in a rigidly disciplined military household, he attended the Citadel, the military college of South Carolina He briefly became a schoolteacher which he chronicled in his memoir The Wate

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  • Paperback
  • 679 pages
  • The Prince of Tides
  • Pat Conroy
  • English
  • 08 October 2018
  • 9780553381542

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